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***QUESTION***
"Dave,
I have a question. A few months back I started dating this fantastic woman. We hit it off instantly. I have been practicing the cockiness before with great success. She loved it and things went along great. The mixture of romance and cockiness worked very well but stopped working. The problem is that she has suddenly decided she does not want a boyfriend right now because she has many things to work out. I have given her space, and she will email me or call after a few days to see what I'm up to, but no indication of when or if we will go out again. Do I give up, keep at what Im presently doing, or just move on? Thanks
T. in Dallas"
***MY COMMENTS***
This is only a guess because I don't know all of the details, but my guess is that you DIDN'T GIVE HER ENOUGH SPACE. You probably called her too much, saw her too much, and acted like a clingy-boy.
When a woman says any of the following:
"I don't want a relationship right now"
"I really care about our friendship and don't want to mess that up"
"I like you as a friend"
"I need some time to find myself"
...it usually can be translated thusly:
"You were cool at the beginning, but you started acting like a wuss, and I just don't FEEL IT for you."
Solution: Don't call often. End conversations first. Give her space. Always end interactions too soon, and on a high note...
Get it?
Don't take it personally, take responsibility.
And remember, ATTRACTION ISN'T LOGICAL. Women aren't attracted to what they SHOULD be attracted to.
If you want women to feel attraction, you're going to have to learn how to create it.
Stay tuned.